I went to a meeting out of town. When I got back into to town her van is in my driveway. Bad sign. So i waited until she got out.
I drove to the end of the street and turned in the culd de sac but she was waiting for me.
She told me the dog had a big dump in the house and my youngest was trying to clean it up. Its my oldest sons dog so he is responsible for walking it but he is very remiss in his duties.
She was upset about that but also took it to get groomed. She was most upset that my oldest is disrespecting her most of the time and doesnt want to be with her much.
She says I dont do anything to bridge that fracture between them and I say he is almost a man, he is 16 and can make his own decisions. I said what you did was wrong and that you have to be responsible for the consequences and one of them is a bad realationship with your son.
She says but you do nothing to help fix it. I say that I do tell him that your mother loves you but I will not tell him how to feel. He knows about the affair as her heard me when I found out that night and I called her every name in the book and told her to get out. You that have followed my sitch know that awful day Oct 30.
So argue some more about this sitch and how I am so IMmature about it and that I should grow up.
She pushes my buttons when she starts firing darts and I was not able to control my temper this time around. I said EFF YOU and hung up.
She then started texting me about the sitch.
Guys , I lost my self control tonight. From the unexpected visit in my driveway to everything she said and there is more but I have to go to my drum lesson so I have to jet.
I will finish this when I get home.
I dont think there is much to save at this point. REally , was there ever when she picked OM over me over a year long affair.
I mean, I asked her to marry me after a year and they are going on a year and a half of their affair.
Maybe its time to face the facts that she is in a relationship with him that is not going to end any time soon.
So I politely said "If there's nothing else, I'm really tired and it sounds like I have a mess to clean up. We'll talk later, goodnight and drive safe," and I left here there and went in the house, closing the door behind me.
