Lily, it looks like you’re trying to start a thread here.
It is best to go back to the newcomers forum list and use the new topic button. That way you’ll have your own thread to post in and for people to comment in.
Not that a thread jack here is unusual.
There are a lot of good people here who will offer their opinions and support.
Post often, and when you see an oppurtunity to comment, support or offer an opinion do so as it helps let the people here know you're active and builds a support structure.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill