Sometimes we want so much to hear words of remorse that we dont always hear everything.
I'm sorry, sweetie, but I do hear a lot of self pitying and projecting on her part. But, I also hear someone who is still in a lot of pain and nowhere near being able to take responsibility for her actions. She wants you to give her absolution.
But, this is different, I think, than the past. So, get a plan together. I would let her lead a bit here. If she wants to talk to you, let her call you. You can decide if you want to take the call or not.
And when you do talk to her, do some active listening.
