1. What is an ultimate goal or target you are really excited about achieving for yourself? 2. What is the next important goal or milestone along the way towards that target?
3. What is an ultimate goal or target you are really excited about achieving in your relationship? 4. What is the next important goal or milestone along the way towards that target?
If you show me yours I'll show you mine.
Good questions Busting, I’ll do my best.
1. I think the thing I am looking most forward to right now is my renewed interest in guitar. I think my ultimate goal here is first to simply get to the spot where I am happy with my play. But after that I would really enjoy finding some other people to play with and maybe even do some gigs.
2. It is a continual progression. I need to stay motivated and continue to practice.
3. Ultimate goal? An extremely happy and fulfilling M. Another child, and a long and happy life together as a family.
4. This is what is so hard. The ultimate goal is easy to define. The small goals that are necessary along the way are harder to define. The first thing that comes to mind is that I would like to have her express even the smallest amount of doubt to me. It’s hard to know what the next step should be though. She isn’t expressing anger towards me, so what would the next logical progression be? I really don’t know. All I can do is my part in this anyways. I am actually pretty happy with the way I have behaved around her. This is all I can really do. She will define what the next step is. Either one that brings us closer to D, or maybe one that brings us closer to reconciliation.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
