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[islander]

Hang in there 9. Take time to let everything sink in and go dark. Then continue to work on you. Don't let her push your buttons next time. When she starts to, end the conversation. I know, easier said than done, I am a perfect example. All is not lost unless you say so. None of us know whatthe future holds, and we may not be successful in saving our M, but we can save ourselves.

We have no choice but to go forward or give up. I don't think your ready to give up. Going dark is not giving up. Now is the perfect time, IMO.