Standing for my live-in MLC'er/WAS

[angel61]

After going through an intense period where I had to literally hold on to my seat to stop myself from confronting my H and just giving up, I am coming into a new phase.

For some reason ( St. John's Wort maybe? Acceptance? Exhaustion? Finally learning detachment?) I find myself reacting less and less to H, seeing more clearly the wrong things I say or do, seeing when I am giving in to impulses that are not contributing to making the R better, able to top myself more when I feel the impulse to snoop and knowing why I do so. I find more and more solace in prayer, and I feel my Faith getting stronger, my belief that my marriage will be restored firm.

I have started to look at the Rejoice ministries website and find that their outlook on divorce and standing resonates with me.

I have become a "stander".