It IS about how he feels. Poor H and how bad he feels for himself. He still isn't taking responsibility for his part. He just wants everyone to know that HE feels bad.
I agree that TRUE remorse is wanting to take full ownership of every action...NOT trying to make you feel sorry for her because this is a mess she didn't anticipate. The people, places and things she is using aren't fixing it. So, now she just feels bad for herself and would like your empathy as well.
Like punkin said, you know her best and I too, am becoming far too cynical.
