That's not remorse. Remorse is when a person regrets what they did and does everything they can to fix it. She's in selfish regret. Read through the thread again. It's filled with HER pain, HER anguish, SHE couldn't see herself being strong like you, etc.
She hasn't learned a single thing. She made mistakes and rather than doing the thing that is right (working on the M), she's taking the easy way out (giving up).
Here's what you need to do. Don't call her. Even though she asked you to. She is seeking validation from you that what she's doing is okay. She's looking at you to give her a hall pass that absolves her of any wrongdoing on her part. DONT DO IT!
Don't call her even if she calls you. Respond back after the 3rd or 5th call. And even then, act as if you're in the middle of something and can't talk to her in detail. If you want your W back, this is what you need to do. You need to show her that you don't need her and that you've moved on.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
