It's a move forward. It's showing him that he's not the boss of you. The thoughts of you having an A is his insecurity kicking in and his way of trying to control you again. Remember how he reacted when you ignored him? Same thing. He's trying to draw you back under his thumb.

He honestly has to feel a sense of loss with you. He has to feel that you are independent enough that you don't need him. You want him to want you and not run the risk of losing you.

Problem is that oftentimes the LBS will become so strong that they figure that they don't need the WAS's drama any more.

Keep this up. You are detaching in a healthy way.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER