Update: Ok. I'm a dummy. I finally got a chance to wait on the phone to talk to my mortgage company. Turns out I'm the only name on the mortgage. Duh. I remember now, but I also know why I didn't remember. Stress. My lawyer may decide to strangle me for it, but so be it. Nice surprise.
I'm looking forward to my kids being home tonight. Hopefully a good evening. I have to take daughter to the eye doc tomorrow, so I'll need her to be at the house. Son is already there. He's a funny lad....
My stbx's brother and wife had a child a couple of days ago. They look very happy and I'm very happy for them. You may recall that the bomb got dropped about a month after their then 12 year old son comitted suicide. They just had a healthy baby boy. I've been kidding my brother in law about the baby. He's very happy and it's fun to kid him about it. I couldn't help it: I joked with him that the baby got his looks because his mom kept hers smile And life goes on...
Hope to hear from the lawyer later today and put the sep agreement to rest. I'm tired of the distraction. I'm tired of the holding pattern. I'm just tired of that part of my life and feeling like I'm stuck in "can't move forward land" (at least with the legal details.)
cie la vie. But life is good and I'm happy to be in it!

Peace,
AJ


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."