You're right islander, it's hard either way. The thing about this, I keep questioning myself. I am supposed to be unpredictable, tough to know what that is sometimes.
She finally sends an all cap PLEASE!!!!!!
So I broke down. Waited another 15 min and sent a pic. But no text from me, just the pic.
Right away, two follow up message.
Lessons here:1. you were withholding a pic from her. See how she wanted something she could have? Make that "thing" you. 2. How did you feel once she was begging for the pic? Not attractive was it?
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I read your advice as ignoring all of them?
Let's talk about proper times to respond: 1. If your daughter is sick and needs help. 2. If it has to do with daughters schedule.
What else really matters?
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She is not really pulling further away at this point; she is just kind of standing there. If I drop the rope I don’t see her falling. I just see her still standing there, but now with no one on the other side of the pond. Where does she go?
This is all your perception of her thoughts. Did she tell you this? NO? then you don't know.
Man or Woman, it doesn't matter. Having two people interested in you makes you feels good. It's exciting.
Removing yourself from the equation takes away their excitement.
What have you done differently that your W would notice you? How is your mood when you exchange your D?
I agree, Friendship is the foundation for a good R.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."