You are right Scylla, I know my wife is not doing it because she does not trust me.
I think i am more upset that both of us are in this position where a bond that once was is not there anymore.
Sometimes it just feels so surreal. That all of a sudden both of us who shared and knew each others deepest feelings all of a sudden feel and act like strangers.
Thanks for your kind words.
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