You are right Scylla, I know my wife is not doing it because she does not trust me.

I think i am more upset that both of us are in this position where a bond that once was is not there anymore.

Sometimes it just feels so surreal. That all of a sudden both of us who shared and knew each others deepest feelings all of a sudden feel and act like strangers.

Thanks for your kind words.


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...