In our discussion, i told my wife that i wanted to keep the home and buy her out. So i suggested appraising the house so that i can figure out how much money i would owe her. She said that she would drive down to the house on the day of the appraisal. It feels bad that she actually does not trust me that i would be fair. I cannot believe it has come down to this that my wife who knew me for 11 years thinks that i would cheat her on the house. Sometimes i cannot believe the level that we come down to when our relationships die....makes me never want to get into any relationship again.
It's not personal believe it or not. Most people based their actions on what they would do. It isn't that your wife doesn't trust you, she wouldn't trust HER! This is really no different than siblings squabbling over an inheritance when a parent dies. Some really ugly stuff comes out.
Breathe man, breathe. This is hard. We in this forum are with you.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
