I really can't even stand to look at him right now. He is such a stranger. Is that common?
I was (am) very upset to find out yesterday that during his 3 hours with the kids, he put on the tv for them and napped on the couch. I find that totally inappropriate. I would immediately fire a babysitter who did that, or a daycare provider. He has been doing this for a long time, and I've told him I don't like it, but he doesn't care. He keeps a very messed up sleep schedule, stays up really late at night, has to be to work by 5:30am, comes home around 12-1ish and naps. I can't figure out why, when he's not living at home and has NO responsibilities besides work, he can't get enough rest on his own time so he can devote all his attention to his kids for 3 stinkin hours!
Me- 35 H- 36 M- 7 T- 9 D3, D5 Bomb 1/21/11 EA/PA began 12/10? Discovered A 3/2/11 S- 3/3/11 OW gone- 4/27/11 H says he wants to reconcile, but lacking action