AJ, I'm in a very similar sitch. I currently work part time as a nurse and I know a full time position will be posted in my department any day now. If we D I definitely need to work full time, and I'd rather stay with a job I know than go thru a D while also learning a whole new job. BUT my heart wants to be home with my kids as much as possible. I've only been at this 2 months, so I don't know if I should jump the gun and take the job or wait it out as long as possible, risking having to change departments. The other thing is, because of union rules, if I take a different position I have to stay in it for a year before I can bid on anything else. I feel like if I do take a full time job and will be stuck in it for a year, I will be done trying to save my M. I will resign myself to my new life as a single full time working mom. I just don't know what to do.


Me- 35
H- 36
M- 7
T- 9
D3, D5
Bomb 1/21/11
EA/PA began 12/10?
Discovered A 3/2/11
S- 3/3/11
OW gone- 4/27/11
H says he wants to reconcile, but lacking action