I am not familiar with your whole story but have read your posts to Cas and GAG and you always have very thoughtful and insightful words for them!
I hope you are wrong about tomorrow but if your H is wanting the D maybe he just feels he needs to follow it thru this time as he is still working thru his demons and thinks that will help. Once it is done, he will most likely find that the D didn't help him at all.
I do know from reading your posts to others is that you have the strength to handle whatever happens!
((((hugs))))
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
