My wife and I have discussed it and I'm planning on moving out on April 1st.

She is seeing the changes I'm making and is happy with them but feels like my effort is too late.

I've told her my view is that I will move out because that is what she wants but I prefer to stay together.

Now she feels like she is the bad guy in wanting me to move out. How should I handle that? Tell her that it's her choice and she needs to deal with it?

Married 15 years
3 children 13, 12, 10
1st D bomb Jan 09
2nd D bomb Feb 11
I moved out June 11