May, I'm just catching up on your sitch. Of course you need to do what is right for you and the baby. This is priority 1!

Keep posting we're all here for one another.

I am not trained, but IMO the "M" in MLC is a misnomer. Life Crisis happen at most any age, and they all aspirate very vigorously.

BITS
Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill