All, I’m tired and this might not come out the way I intend it to. I apologize if this offends.
I have been following this discussion, and one similar came up in my own thread. I did some digging and did not find W was involved with OP. Later after I stopped looking I found out she had begun to pursue an R with OP. Though I have not confirmed this I understand nothing has begun and the OP blocked contact from W through FB. (remarkable an OP with morales) So like Scared I know little.
My questions: What does this really change? If we accept our S are involved and this is not cause for us to be done then what action oriented things are suggested? Does this change the DB principals?
Sadly there are quite a few threads here where S are confirmed to be in an A. I don’t perceive significant differences to what we are all doing beyond the boundary attributed to Truegritter quoted below.
So what am I missing?
Originally Posted By: Truegritter
W, I've told you before that I still love you and still think that we can have a great life together as both a couple and a family. I've not changed my mind on that. But I understand you are not happy, that you do not feel happy or complete inside.
You need to do what will make you happy. By my side, we live as partners, we share everything and we would do anything to help one another. But that's only if we continue as a team.
I won't stand in your way. But I also will not help you leave this marriage or this family. And I will never accept another person being a part of our life together.
I hope you find the happiness you are looking for. Go do what you need to do. You know where I will be.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
