Well I think the main thing that sticks out to me is that you are super strong. SUPER strong and resilient. That's such progress. You're supportive of him but you also support YOU. And if a choice ever has to be made, you'll choose to support yourself first. That's progress :-)
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying