Hey Jack. Yes she said she wanted me to fight for her. She felt I never did this. I told her early in this process that OM was no competition for me and that I was not going to audition for her affection. I feel that she's laid the failure of our R at my feet and now expects me to dance for her.
This sentiment surfaced again when she said there were 1000 things I could have done to get her back - while she's having an affair. Fortunately, I never took the bait and asked that she name one.
As has been said many times here, there is nothing I could have done/said or not done/said which would have changed her. I would have only cheapened myself.