Hey AJ. What is your ultimate timeline for making your decision? I say that, because it seems as though you may be looking to far into the future. Is the relocation in the Fall something that has to be knocked out right now? I know there are daycare waiting lists and a job hunt. Are these things that can be planned but not acted on if things were to start getting better?

I just think that the pressure of this decision is getting to both you and your H. I still think that patience prevails in your situation. Maybe it was just a slip, but H's comments of not being able to separate his short term for long term could have meant something. I know we are not to over analyze WAS comments, but for some reason I still see your H realizing what is important to him in life. Just a hunch on my part (and your gut).

Hope you are doing well tonight.


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated