The LAST RESORT TECHNIQUE is where you pull back, stop all pursuit. It's going dark, and there are 'shades' that are appropriate to every situation. Basically, you do not intiate contact, don't give yourself an excuse. Be less available -- respond to every few contacts your spouse makes. Let them begin to have to live without you. YOU work on yourself...improve the issues your spouse had with you.
You give yourself a second chance at a great first impression.
The ultimate is the AFTER the Last Resort Technique. They are not the same.
