Look at the small things happening...I think, from my limited view of situation, your H is seeing some changes and is acting differently. Don't rush the situation or escalate things. He's not going to go cold turkey from her.
I do agree....I guess time will tell. Actions speak louder than words don't they? You are right about not going cold turkey. NOW THAT WOULD MAKE ME LAUGH thinking of OW if he did! Would serve her sorry rear right! he he.
I love your ideas about best case/worse case scenarios. It does help put everything in perspective doesn't it? D17 last night at dinner said "what are you guys going to do without me?" I just piped in that dad and I have been waiting until she leaves for college to go skydiving, bungie jumping, race car driving, etc... we all laughed.
Me - 49 H - 56 S - 23 D - 20 Married 25 years H moved out 10/11/13 H moved back in 10/13/13 H moved out again 8/1/14
