H still living in home but cheating

[abbey1989]

Update:
I felt SO MUCH BETTER after talking to a coach this a.m. Seriously...it brought a bit of clarity to how we relate (or don't relate) to each other and it was nice to finally confide in someone (even though it is a stranger). Big weight off of my shoulders that helped me get through the day. Plus, she gave me some great ideas to move forward. She also talked about "dropping the rope" which I interpret to mean recognizing H's behavior pattern and choosing not to play the same part any more.

So that's about it for me today. Headed to the gym then home to make dinner for the family.

Song for the day: "These Are the Days" Van Morrison.
Check it out.