I guess I don’t understand the fear of her becoming detached, I think all of these W’s who left are already detached. That was done most likely before they even left.
A point I have made to new comers over and over and over again. It is very real that the WAW detached before leaving. It is no secret that she is much further along than I am. I understand all that. Indifference is a dangerous emotion when we are dealing with our sitch. We each handle detachment differently. I know where I am and I think I see where she is going.
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I just don’t see what positive can come from R talk at this point. Hope to change her mind?
None. You missunderstand me country. I am not looking for a R talk. After 5 months of talking on the phone you learn to pick up certain vibes from the voice. That's all
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I think the first thing should be addressing her anger, and I think conversations like the one you had will help that much more than any R talk at this point.
Agreed. I've had these convo's before. Light and chipper, but not like this. There is a difference in the voice.
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Keep truckin’ man.
I am not going anywhere. I am still here. I am kind of a pest that way. Just can't take no for an answer
