Country I get your point. Don't think I don't. One thing that I am is stubborn some of the people who have been with me since the beginning will tell you.
I do get the no R/M talk, although back in Jan I did not.
The voice, the tone, the reaction are much more important than the words.
Scary part is I feel close to the same.
I don't think we are very far apart here at all. I am not suggesting going dark, just keeping things upbeat and light. I guess I don’t understand the fear of her becoming detached, I think all of these W’s who left are already detached. That was done most likely before they even left.
I just don’t see what positive can come from R talk at this point. Hope to change her mind?
All I am suggesting is baby steps. I think the first thing should be addressing her anger, and I think conversations like the one you had will help that much more than any R talk at this point.
Keep truckin’ man. This is a tough road and there are no easy answers. You do know your W best so use that knowledge.
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