You bring up a good point in saying The WASs LOVE IT when they can get under your skin. When you argue with them, it validates why they left. You are refusing to play into her hands!
There seems to be alot of panic, frustration with some of the LBS's and their WAS's blocking them on FB, unfriending them and/or starting a new page.
My reaction and it will be harsh (sorry) is...WHO CARES!!! I mean really...it's just freakin' FB. And I think it just reiterates the juvenile mentality of where the WAS's are. I think this is yet another attempt of the WAS to seem like they are in control and make us think they have some secret, fabulous life going on that they don't want us to know about. I HIGHLY doubt this is true. Our brains always shoot to the negative what-if's. How about this thought...that they are hiding things because their life really does s*ck and this is yet another mask so they don't have to face their own demons and accountability?
My STXH blocked me 3 times since we've been seperated and one of those time he even blocked my BF who is not even on FB that much anymore. I called him on and I was like really? Are you really 42?!
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
