Saints are sinners who kept on going

[ninelives]

You know its funny. I wish we could sit down and talk to our waw's and have them really, really think this through.

I have talked to some divorced people where there were affairs and almost to the person they wish they would have handled things differently and stayed with their spouses.

Unless there was abuse or alcholism or gambling problems, for the most part, things could have been worked out without going down this road.

I fully believe my W will fee this way in a few years. One of my collegues said that I should just let her go and if she is LUCKY enough to realize what she had is still available, then she can make things work out.

But many of these WAW's dont get that chance because the LBS eventually gets stronger and then moves on.

SAD

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