BUT. I think 2step also feels that she is detaching for real and may be the next step for this being a permanent separation. That is the toughest thing to try and balance. Going dark may mean out of site out of mind and lets move on, permanently.
Sounded like a good conversation but that may mean the beginning to the end. One never really knows. Maybe she doesnt even know for sure.
Thats why this is all so convuluted. There are no blueprints to navigate , its all speculation.
Hope you are taking the positives 2step.
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