I'm not one to advocate snooping when you're already separated and in the D process but it does seem like seeing those pictures was a catalyst for you to move forward and stop pining for her and what you once had.
BRAVO!
Put it behind you, be businesslike, be the GREAT dad I have seen you being and forget her. Some day you may become friends of a sort. Not really friends, more like aquaintances who have some common ground.
You are going to make it and you ARE going to thrive in the end! You have a plan!!! That's more than most!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!