No offense to you buddy, but I get the impression that you have been more of a "This suckks" but haven't been doing much of anything except watching and documenting how much "This suckks."
That is the problem with a status quo you don't like. You have this irrational fear that it will get worse. And it paralyzes you.
I think doing something...almost anything is better than just existing in a place you are unhappy with.
So while I don't believe a push is a bad thing, I think this is more important:
Quote:
Whatever you choose, make your life attractive and see who watches.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK