Update- had a counselling session.
Seems my goals are set just a tad too ambitiously. I'm glad I record the small improvements here, or I'd take no notice of them as a slow progression.
Updated my counsellor, have a plan of action for a time.

Advised me that with the coming head on collision with reality and H living in midlife crisis land, that H. isn't going to be reasonable and could possibly lash out a me and blame me for economic disintegration. Told me to listen and affirm his feelings and not be defensive or logical ( gasoline + fire anyone?)

I will do my best, I don't know I can pull it off.


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Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.