Had a little look in Newcomers.. wow theres a lot of guys on there nowadays.

My BFF was a classic WAW.. her H is NOT coping at all, he is hounding her, begging her to reconsider, telling her he l*ves her is desperate and low (NOT getting a life, or sorting out the things about him she had grown to detest etc).. interestingly, she said, had he been doing the opposite, leaving her be, respecting her need for space, sorted himself out, GAL, being a better father (he's getting better there at least) smartened up etc etc.. she WOULD give him a 2nd chance!

As it is, she is begining to dislike him and has told him contact has to be reduced and he is not to call her, else she will change her number.

DBing really does work folks cool