I completed my GOAL. No telephone calls or tm's for 5 days. It was hard at first then became easy. I FINALLY understand the push/pull.

Yesterday was the FIRST time in a long time he sent me a text for no reason at all, a picture of the ipad2 that he wants to buy. I didn't respond.

Last night I went to bed before he got home. He woke me (he never does) to tell me he was home, did I need an extra blanket and dinner looks good.

When I left for work this morning, 6:30am, he said "Jezzz, you are leaving earlier and earlier each day. I just smiled. He told me to have a nice day and to stay warm. I said TY you 2. I do see small baby steps.


me:51
H: 48
No kids together
M:14 years
seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11
Piecing 09/14