Had a great long weekend with the kids. Took them to the park on Sunday and the Smithsonian yesterday...played non-stop the rest of the time. Still found time to unpack all of W's and the kids' stuff (and there was a lot of it) from their time away.
W got home from her friends' house fairly late last night. I was already laying in bed watching TV when she got home. She asked how the kids were, I said great, and that they were worn out after our weekend. I asked her if she had fun on her weekend, she said yes, I had a good time. Then I went to sleep, while she stayed up and watched TV for a bit.
Tonight will be our first significant amount of time together in the house. I'm still pretty confused in trying to figure out exactly what she wants from me...I've had lots of mixed messages in the past week that I'm trying to piece together. Maybe someone here can help. Here's my summary of things she's said/done recently that I've percieved to be positive and negative:
Positives: She moved home, we're sleeping in the same bed, she "wants things to be as normal as possible", she said "things really need to change", she has been friendly in our limited interaction so far.
Negatives: She said "she wants space", she said she came home "not for us, but for the kids"
Penny for your thoughts...
BITS M: 35 W: 35 T14, M11 D9, S6 ILYBINILY: June 09 Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11 W came home: 3/17/11 EE: July 2012 Dropped the rope: Oct 2012 Piecing: April 2013 Not piecing: April 2014 Stuck.