Geez Sandi.

calm down, no one was attacking you.

SL cam on here looking for advice on what he proposed. Your "advice" was to say he still sounded weak. In fact you seem to suggest that his type of conversation was worthless because of their past. Nothing more, as you didn't really offer much else.

Secondly, if you took the time to read what I wrote and not feeling like a victim. You'll note the "twisted mind" I was referring to was NOT YOU, but SL's Wife. I'm sorry but WASs do have a twisted sense of reality.

As for your last lecture, (talk about a high horse) look I get that you have a "unique" perspective on things and are willing to share, but you have NO IDEA on what it feels like to have this done to you.
But more to the point. I've always taken anything you said with a grain of salt. I think you are qualified in talking about your experience as a WAW with your OM. But that doesn't make your experience the exact same for everyone or every WAS. It is helpful and yes the board is thankful.

I just think you are still miffed at me because of something I said a while ago.


Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.