Today is OK

[Sanderika]

Hi Cas,


I have been following along with your situation very closely.

I believe that your H is attempting to reconcile with you. It is absolutely obvious, without question, he still loves you very much.

I also feel that we reach a time where we need to step back and review the situation with a lucid and realistic position.

I am proud of you for having the discipline to stand on your values and morals. It is a beautiful and honorable trait and I hope that H is looking upon your convictions with admiration and respect.

I also have read and witnessed the about face of a WAS who wants to return to their family only to find the door has been closed and the option is no longer available due to the endurance of the separation and the nature of the circumstances; infidelities, pain, mistrust, etc....

It is a very unfortunate situation for all involved when one has waited for AND worked hard for their spouse to return and it happens too slowly/late for a variety of reasons.

Cas, I support your decisions and trust that you will do what is best for you. I also have the hope and faith that love will prevail with your H and he will do the right thing after all.

I needed to tell you that I have been reading along. I am not doing very well. It has been hard for me to post since I have no positive emotions at all right now. I have to figure this out once and for all, what's the best solution for us....I feel it's time to completely give up the fight and cave in to the divorce. I have a court hearing on Thursday and it is taking all the strength I have to face it.

I am praying for you, H, D and S every day for a reunion of your family.

(((((Hugs)))))

Sanderika