I think I see a bit of light...

[Mila]

Hi SA, just catching up....I would hate if my D went on vacation with H & OW...not sure if anything could be done legally...I doubt it...

I think your H is bribing your D because he is trying to legitimize his R with OW and "normalize" everything...Does you D want to go?

One way to avoid it is to plan something with your D for the same time as H is going and do it before she accept H's invite...doesn't have to be a vacation, just something that your D always wanted to do, but didn't have an opportunity...just a thought

(((hugs)))