update on my sitch II

[MrBond]

"I am working on myself everyday"

Such as? Have you found a job yet?

I do believe there's hope in everyone's sitches. However, it's important to detach and not necessarily "wait" while the WAS is deciding what to do.

Let's put it this way. DB mentions that you write down a list of small goals that you want to achieve and see what steps you can do to make them happen. Have you done that? So far, you've kind of let your W do the driving and you're waiting.

So far all I've heard is your W talking to you about D matters. Does she talk about anything else? Have you tried talking to her about anything else?