FOBD,

that is certainly one perspective ... here's another ...

The WAS does not see the extended family as the problem, they are not walking away from the children or the in-laws ... they are walking away from the spouse, the marriage.

Mind reading WHY the WAS does something is not good for healthy detachment ... even educated guesses, are still guesses and can be wrong.

YOU OWE HIM NOTHING is a little strong IMO ... and comes across as inflamatory.

grr ... back to you smile

let's keep digging her out ...

... this woman ...

Peace
PEI


Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc