My sitch is very similar, except in my case my W said she doesn't intend to stop contact with OM. She accused me of trying to prevent her from having friends, and justified her continued contact with the fact she is unhappy and she deserves to be happy. I have been working on my 180 any GAL for a month and I'm starting to see signs of improvement, so all I can say is be patient and stick to the program.


Me 46 W 43
M 17
S 14
D 11
ILYB 9/2010
EA began July/August 2010 ?
PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ?
I began DB in Jan 2011
I filed 7/12/11
Kids and I moved out 7/30/11
I'm in it for the kids and me.