One of my favorites from my EXH was that I had bought a Longeberger basket in 1995 and that it was expensive. I said "did you tell me not to buy something when i went to the party" He said "no". Glad to know he justified his affair because I bought a basket and I told him he couldn't play golf on the weekends when we had 2 children under the age of 4 and he worked 60 hours a week and no family nearby (military). I even remember telling him when they get older golf is back on but we need family time and date time.
They sometimes will admit it but you can't force them to see it your way.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too