OK, this is just my extremely humble opinion, but this seems very odd to me. You go dark for a period of time, and then your first contact is asking her to go to a concert with you?

I know you are very against getting into a "friend zone" but I think you need to focus on baby steps a bit more. If you are going to mix in some contact into your approach, try to keep it light. ZERO pressure.

It seems right now you went straight from dark to pursuing. I think you should focus on smaller goals between where you are now and where you ultimately want to be.

I know, 2 pennies won't buy you *bleep*

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