I agree with Sandi, you deserve to know what's going on.
And I agree with you Punchy! "This is not living."
And no ultimatums... Boundaries!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012