As part of my 180 I have begun to assume control of more of the family money. I told my w that I would take care of the tax filing this year. She has handled it in the past, but I nicely told her that I can handle it and I need to be more involved in these matters. She was surprised and a bit irritated, probably because she thought I didn't trust her with the tax refund money, and partly because she had already decided how to spend it. In the past my w has made financial decisio ns without consulting me, but that's over now.
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.