Life is all about change. When our relationship changed back into a nice, friendly, happy one, my husband didn't need to say anything about the change, we both knew it had occurred. I think most people believe that what they thought at the time was true at the time....and since that time is past, there is no reason to wallow in it.
I completely agree with Lotus' comment.
My H also has a bad memory.....and now, a few years on from our crisis, he has trouble recalling any of the details at all, whilst I can still recall them very well. They no longer have quite the same painful impact that they once had though......and sometimes we even laugh about what happened. We have learnt from it and moved on. That is not meant to sound glib.....it was a very painful learning curve.......but from great pain, new great happiness can flourish, given the chance.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
