Punkin, SA's son is absolutely right...they don't hate us, but they do hate themselves and it will catch up w/them sooner or later. I know it's crazy the way they think but I've seen and heard from far too many of them who start to question themselves along the way as to why they treated their lbs' the way they did.
I've been downt the road you are traveling and I know it hurts to have him behave this way and you've done absolutely nothing to deserve it, but Punkin, when it is all said and done, you will be the one that comes out of this stronger and wiser. I know that doesn't help right now, but you will be okay.
Enjoy planting your garden...put your frustration and anger to good use in digging holes for your plants. They will flourish and be absolutely beautiful!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
