Originally Posted By: sandi2 Sorry, but from MHO, this conversation makes you sound weak. Nothing good for you will come out of it.
She said to "act like a man" and you've said she does not like these type of conversations and the last few you had went badly. So, why do you think it will go any better this time around?
Yes and carrying on with the OM while your husband tolerates makes you look super strong and manly...not to mention how it helps the self-esteem. I think sometimes these wives with their OMs have no concept of reality. They put us in a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation.
Oh come down off your highhorse, Harrier.
He said he wanted that conversation to go really well and wanted an opinion about it. I never told him that he should tollerate an A.
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In what kinda of twisted mind does that make you week for not tolerating it? i think you look 10X more weaker for tolerating it.
Well, I don't have a twisted mind, nor do I have OM. But, I think I qualify a little bit in telling the LBH how most WAW in an A would feel toward some things said or done by him. If that makes you mad or you don't agree, fine.....but you don't have to be offensive.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
