Still, would you describe your W as the dominant person in your R?
If so, I think you need to work on this dynamic before confronting her. If you are worried about being steamrolled, you will be. Think about how you can begin practicing this before you confront her.
I don’t blame you for wanting to have this conversation at all. I know I would. But make sure you are absolutely ready for it if you do. There is a fine line between being a strong and confident man, and simply coming across as an A-hole. And the last thing you want is to come across as weak. You need to find the right balance.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.